Ninja I think that if a person is on your friends list, then there is no point in making a limit for the number of messages (or you can make a separate setting for this limit).
I saw what the limits were made by social networks. They made a limit on the number of messages per day that you sent to people not from your friends list, and rightly so, it helps to prevent spam mailing, but in JomSocial it also limits communication with friends.
I want a person outside the friends list to be able to send only 30 messages (to prevent spam), but for those people who are in the friends list, this limit does not make sense.
I just hope that you will understand me, because this is not only my request, I think it is necessary for everyone. Your component allows you to create a social network and communicate with friends - this is its main function, especially the chat bar and notifications - this is why I chose JomSocial, and not another component for Joomla.
Chat Bar, Notification Panel and Joomla Article Comments (plugin) are the only reasons why I bought a subscription for $300, I hope your company understands this. If these functions were not for JomSocial, then I would not have paid my $300.
These are the only functions that I have not seen in other components for Joomla. This is the key advantage of JomSocial. I just hope you continue to develop these features, because these features are the future.