andrewwinkler Just for clarification. I would like to make the mainnav blog look like your support forum.
Kindly view this as the forum is Flarum based which is internal project of JoomlArt. I am afraid that getting the exact replica along with functionality of respective section as desired by you should require heaps of customizations as per my knowledge as the same would also require several fragments of coding modifications/inheritance
Apologizes but such feature or customization request as asked by you comes within "limited" scope of the JA forums and should require good sufficient time and would depend upon your coding skills to get the results as envisaged by way of screenshot shown.
Would suggest to kindly hire some developer, designer or agency for the same
Anyhow, I'll look into how those jomsocial icons are being created in the header of the socialize template
Switching templates at this stage of the project would be too hard.
I duly understand that switching template isnt an option which would require several changes/customizations and modification to get elements right. However, Kindly confirm if you have tried the outlined steps as mentioned in other forum thread and assign respective module to other positions available in your template assigned or need further assistance with the same